• Nov 23 Fri 2007 09:40
  • Help.

Due to some reasons, my current maid maybe can't work for us anymore in a very short time...
I went to look for a new maid, and i chose a cambodian maid, but husband wasn’t too happy with my decision, cause he can’t trust a new maid especially a cambodian maid that we are not sure can she understand any english..But he refuse to hire a indo maid too...he can’t trust a new maid...I am very headache of this...

Now our options:

1. Nursery Daycare
Send Sean to a daycare nursery . Nursery does have it’s good and bad.
Good is Sean can learn to be independant and many friends to play with
Bad is Sean maybe will easily get sick...
I am quite worry for this option...Cos i think sean is too small to go for a nursery at this age....

2. Babysitter
i prefer to look for a babysitter nearby our living area. But i am not confident that i can look for a good and responsible babysitter who can take care of a choosy kid like Sean....
Husband against this option...he says babysitter can’t be trusted...cos she will be take care of baby in a private house, If anything happen nobody will care and notice....

3. Hire a new maid and pray for she is a good one? (cambodian/ indo)

4. I resigned and take care of sean myself
This is the best option...but if i stop working, we will met some financial problem...
And husband don’t think i can do the housework, taking care of sean and in the meantime doing freelance..which i think impossible too... If u are a mother and father, u will understand how buzy it will be when taking care of a kid.. there won’t be any private time to do your own work.

Sigh...headache..Can anyone give me any suggestion?
or can anyone recommend me any GOOD babysitter in Taman Equine, Seri Kembangan or nearby area?


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  • cychong
  • Is it something wrong with your current maid?? Are you going to<br />
    terminate her or she will not work for you for a few months only??<br />
    <br />
    Angie's ex babysitter is good but she is in cheras, pandan indah.<br />
    <br />
    Where your work??and your husband? May be you can drop Sean at<br />
    babysitter's on the way to work??<br />
    <br />
    Actually why not ask your parent or parent in law to look after<br />
    sean??<br />
    <br />
    Actually, Nursery is not that bad. I am also looking for nursery<br />
    around my area but there is only 1 and only take baby at least 2<br />
    year olds. :(<br />
    <br />
  • candysquare
  • em, actually my maid is a good maid, atleast she treat me, <br />
    husband and especially sean veryvery good. but the prob <br />
    is she is under the name of my mom. my mom is in 更年期<br />
    now..many things turning hard to communicate with <br />
    her...my mom told me my maid is a bad maid, and she <br />
    insisit to terminate her, and refuse to change the owner to <br />
    me..i can only say 家家有本難念的經. bcos of this prob, me <br />
    and my mom have been quarell for few weeks, until my <br />
    mom nearly wan to stop the relationship with me, kinda <br />
    hard to understand for outside ppl :-(<br />
    <br />
    my parent n inlaw are impossible to help me takecare of <br />
    sean cos all of them are working. only my husband <br />
    grandma is free, but she is almost 80 yrs old, i dun wan to <br />
    get her in any trouble...<br />
    <br />
  • candysquare
  • i work in puchong, husband in serdang, so i think its good <br />
    to choose a babysitter or nursery in these areas. but i have <br />
    no idea how to start...mayb this weekend will start going to <br />
    do research.<br />
    <br />
    mm. nvm..i always remind myself tat tmr will be a better <br />
    day. 沒有不能解決的事。 if really can't look for a babysitter, <br />
    i think i will send sean to a nursery...
  • cychong
  • How about this option? Since it is your mum wants to terminate.<br />
    Why not you ask her if it is possible for her to take care sean<br />
    without any maid's help.<br />
  • candysquare
  • dear cychong,<br />
    <br />
    thanks for the info. its very useful. will go home to discuss <br />
    with husband.<br />
    <br />
    haha..this option is impossible lar...my mom just wan to play <br />
    with sean...taking care of him...OH NO~~~keke.
  • Chua
  • I'm having similar problem having difficulty finding a <br />
    good babysitter for my baby2b. My baby due in <br />
    August this year and i haven't found any <br />
    babysitter. I'm looking for one near seri <br />
    kembangan too. Came across your blog and <br />
    wondering if you could recommend any? Btw, have <br />
    you solved your problem?
  • hi Chua,<br />
    <br />
    sorry i don't know any good babysitter in seri <br />
    kembangan~can't recommend u any..so sorry.<br />
    mayb u can search babysitter here?--><br />
    http://my.meadjohnsonasia.com/<br />
    <br />
    my prob, erm..sending sean to nursery this <br />
    march, cos he will be turning 1y7m nex month <br />
    ad..mayb its good for him to mix around with the <br />
    kids around his age.<br />
    <br />
    hope tat u can find a good baby sitter. :-)

    candysquare 於 2008/02/25 00:11 回覆

  • Chua
  • Thank you anyway. :)