努力了一個星期,今天是第9天了,
喂了3年1個月的母乳,我終于要卸下重任了。
要和母乳說再見了,有如釋重負的感覺。

早在小軒快2嵗的時候我就有機會戒奶了,
那時我去曼谷考察5天,但是那時碰巧遇到小軒剛上學,
我擔心剛上學的小孩容易生病(現在覺得那時想太多),
就每晚和每早在酒店用水瓶擠奶,打算繼續母乳之路。
就這樣,由於一開始的母乳之路走得不順利,
我也不小心養成了小軒的奶睡和夜奶的坏習慣,
直到快3嵗時才戒掉夜奶,所謂夜奶就是晚上如果一醒就找奶喝,
也不是餓,只是一種“安慰”的效果。

後來小軒滿3嵗后,我鄭重考慮正式戒奶和斷奶,
因爲3年了,我累了,我想休息了。
不想對小軒太殘酷,有和他好好商量,
說小軒3嵗了咯,大男孩了,會用杯子喝水,milo了,
(小軒不喝鮮乳,也不喝配方奶)
母乳是給小北鼻喝的,小軒不是小北鼻咯~(我也不知道這樣說對不對。)
不過他很顯然不接受我的建議。
所以我決定凃一點“榴蓮”在胸部,讓小軒知難而退,
小軒和媽咪一樣,對榴蓮是敬而遠之的,
小軒第一口喝,覺得怪怪的,
問我“mommy, what did u put on the milk”
我笑笑說“I put nothing.”
所以他又繼續喝了,騙人!這小子明明不怕榴蓮。

第二次我使用“醋”,
他喝了說“辣辣!”猛喝水,
然後就吵呀!哭呀!喊give me milk!!!I want milk!!
哭著睡着了。

以爲計劃快成功,誰知之後發燒了,
我沒辦法對發燒的小孩殘酷耶~~
計劃擱置了幾天,等他痊愈后再進行。

上星期五開始戒奶行動,是完全不給他喝,
又再和小軒好好解釋一番,一樣不接受。
那。。來硬的咯~
就讓他閙,不要理他,我有抱抱他,拍拍他,唱歌給他聼,
不過少爺不接受,還生氣地扯我的衣服,
後來我轉身睡覺,不要理他,
他哭得更大聲,問他要不要媽咪抱住睡覺,
他擦擦鼻涕說要,好,就抱著睡覺了。
連續了2,3天都是這個情況。
慢慢地小軒的態度沒有這麽“強烈”了,
他還是會問我,can I have some milk please?
我說,I'm sorry, mommy have no more milk,
we say goodbye to milk already.
他有點傷心,但還是接受,
就在床上滾來滾去,一直嘰嘰喳喳地説話,
然後突然像電池沒有電了,就睡着了。
噢,真好,成功了。

小軒寶貝,謝謝你的“合作”和“體貼”。
媽咪很開心能夠堅持讓你喝母乳,
這3年來的合作關係一直很愉快,雖然當中也有不少挫折,
要和你說謝謝,你很棒!

戒奶后,小軒好像有點不像以前那樣“猛”黏著我了,
他有點黏kakak,也變得很黏爸比,當然還是有黏我,
只是他的“黏度”好像分散了,
很愛和爸比一起洗澡,睡覺,玩耍。(以前也愛,不過好像突然變得非常愛)
我陪他刷牙,總是no no no.
爸比出馬,他乖乖地刷,還讓爸比替他刷沒清潔好的部分,
睡覺前不要尿尿,爸比出馬,立刻嘻嘻哈哈地跟爸比上廁所,
哭哭,要爸比安慰。

嗯,老公,我也覺得你很厲害,你要加油!
這樣我就可以休息多一點了,哈哈。

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  • beestory
  • Good job, Candy! I've always had the respect for mommies who breastfeed their children, not to mention for your hard work in the past 3 years! Your story truly have moved me! Besides, well done to Mr. Sean too!
  • now when i think back, it's not really "hard work", hee :-p

    but the beginning really met lots of problem that i dunno who to ask for help.

    candysquare 於 2009/09/14 10:05 回覆

  • Jennifer
  • Candy, you breast feed your son three years. Really good job. How can you make it?
  • 靠堅持+順其自然+小孩愛喝母乳+天時地利人和

    candysquare 於 2009/09/15 10:30 回覆

  • nana
  • Candy,
    我要為你拍拍手,啪啪啪啪!!!
    我自己也哺乳小孩,知道三年 確實不容易。很多人三天就不干了,所以你真的很棒!!
    小和也有奶睡和夜奶的習慣,這讓我很累,我還在想要怎樣幫他戒奶睡和夜奶的習慣呢。
    我有問題很好奇哦,你白天工作有擠奶嗎?還是只是晚上的時候才讓小軒吸?那奶量能夠維持嗎?
  • nana,

    知道三年 確實不容易--> 想一想其實也沒有很難。辛苦的是一開始而已。

    i start working when sean is 8 months old, he doesn't accept bottle feeding (except water), so tat time i didnt pump milk in offcie(and my office is not tat "breastfeeding friendly" , the only place i can pump milk is toilet), so day time sean eat poridge, rice, mee etc. when i got home 7pm, then i will breastfeed him. until he grew older, 1y ++, he doesnt really need milk during daytime anymore, so we just have 奶睡+夜奶。

    i know 奶睡+夜奶 is tiring especially when they grew older. u can start to wean for the 奶睡+夜奶 when glenn is young this age, cos as they grew older, it's harder to wean...(cos they are older, they more 懂事) my method might sound cruel to u, but it's the only way tat works on little stubborn sean. :-p

    還是只是晚上的時候才讓小軒吸?-->yes. but actually they doesn't really need milk after 1y old. they need solid food.

    那奶量能夠維持嗎? --> 奶量 will decrease cos the "need" is decreasing too. it's normal too. 奶量 will change according to the child's need. actually after 2 1/2 yrs old, my 奶量 is just like "dessert" to sean. he doesnt really need it, but it's like a habit or 安慰 for him.

    candysquare 於 2009/09/15 15:19 回覆

  • Liz
  • candy, you really good!!! can breastfeed till your son now...... but, how do you mange to breastfeed him while you also working?
  • I stop breastfeeding during day time starts from sean's 8 months old. and he eats solid foods. only drink milk at nite when i went home from work.

    If i have second child i will still choose breastfeeding, but this quite hesitate me cos my company is not a "breastfeeding friendly" environment, and i work long hours.

    candysquare 於 2009/09/15 15:16 回覆

  • nana
  • Candy,
    本來,我打算在小和一嵗后就用pump擠奶用奶瓶喂他,可是他完全不接受奶瓶,給他奶瓶他只會拿來玩!所以這個計劃應該行不通!!
    我也想喂母乳到他一嵗半就停,可是就是擔心他沒有奶睡會很閙。通常他半夜會起來兩次找奶,這真的很累。能夠不給的話,我通常就拍他讓他再睡,可是很多時候他都不肯,一定要吸才罷休。
  • nana,

    exactly same like Sean. haha
    last time i used to pity Sean too when he cry and yell for milk at nite, but this makes me so tired and can’t sleep.
    but when he grew older, 我比較可以忍耐他的哭哭了,
    我確定他吃飽了正餐,只是在尋求安慰, 我也花了3年心腸才硬起來。哈哈!

    If i were u, 擔心他沒有奶睡會很閙--> i will just let him cry, cry for 2-3 days he will understand and accept the fact. but mommy have to 忍得住,我以前就忍不到。(but u have to explain to him nicely first)

    yes 奶睡 very tiring for mommy...i understand...tats why i wan to 戒奶。

    我通常就拍他讓他再睡,可是很多時候他都不肯,一定要吸才罷休。--> u know what, until sean 2 yrs old ++, i start to think, 你不肯,媽媽也不肯啊!!你不爽,媽媽也會不爽啊!!讓媽媽好好睡一覺為什麼不行呢?又不是生病,只是晚上醒來尋求安慰而已,小孩是有必要學習如何自己入睡。

    and so, if he gets up during midnight, i will ask him, do u want mommy hug hug? if he said no, he wants milk. then i will say, byebye, mommy no more milk, and mommy need to sleep now. then he will starts crying, i let him cry, cry until he satisfied, i ask him , wan mommy hug? he says yes and we all sleep tgt again.

    candysquare 於 2009/09/15 16:22 回覆

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